Gambling is the wagering of money or valuables on an event with a random outcome, where instances of skill are discounted. It involves consideration, risk, and a prize (either cash or another item of value). Historically the word gambler has also been used to describe a fraudulent gamester or rook who cheats at play for a profit.
For some people, gambling can become problematic and erode relationships, damage health and finances, affect work and study performance and lead to criminal activity. It can also cause depression and anxiety and cause a range of psychological distress. In extreme cases, it can even cause suicide.
The most important step in overcoming gambling addiction is admitting that you have a problem. It can be difficult, especially if you have incurred significant debt or ruined your career as a result of gambling, and it is common to feel depressed and guilty about your gambling behaviour.
Many organisations offer support and assistance for people who have a gambling problem, including therapists and counselling services. These can be in person, over the phone or online and may include family therapy, debt counselling and support for friends and partners. BetterHelp, for example, provides online therapy and matches you with a therapist who can help with gambling, depression, anxiety and relationships.
The most effective way to tackle problematic gambling is to build a strong support network, and develop healthy coping mechanisms. Be aware that a compulsion to gamble can be triggered by a variety of triggers, from stress and depression to drug use and alcohol abuse. It is also helpful to avoid the temptation to gamble by limiting access to your bank account, and avoiding gambling sites on your computer or mobile phone.